Getting the bugs out of your marriage: Budgetitis
Getting the bugs out of your marriage: Budgetitis Originally uploaded by m0smith . An inability to accept your spouse's attitudes toward money. SYMPTOMS: - Finances are primary topic of arguments - A feeling your spouse is spending you into financial ruin - Tendency to "surprise spouse" with items such as a new car, boat, etc. ADVANCED STAGES: - Tendency to spend money to get back at your spouse - One spouse has complete control of the budget, forcing the other spouse to account for all money spent. TREATMENT: - Plan and hold one or more yearly discussions on budget and financial priorities. - Evenly apply compromise - Exercise understanding and consideration of your spouse's values and background. CAUTION: If irritation breaks out during discussion, discontinue treatment until tempers cool down. Then increase dosage of compromise and understanding.